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writes:Right well basically i am 17 and my cousin's fiancee (soon to be huspand)is 22 i think is flirting with me. i have known him since i was 6 and we always got on really well but latley since i turned like 16 he has become a bit too over friendly. for example me and him always talk on facebook and we are into the same music and like the same styles and foods and stuff so he is always comming online and saying things like oh i have a new band for you to listen to and stuff which i think is really sweet but sometimes he asked me things like "am i still a virgin" or "do i have a boyfriend" and when i told him i didnt have a boyfriend he was like "good" and i was really confused on what he ment by that. Also he asks if we can meet up or go cinema or out for a meal but i thought he ment me him and my cousin so i said yes and when i got there it was just him and we had a laugh but he kept holding my hand and putting he's arm round me and stroking my hair and my face. Thewost thing of all though is that i think i am falling for him and latly i have become to really like him , i try to block it out but sometime i can't and i really dont know what to do , shall i tell me cousin or am i just over reacting?? Help please
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reader, agonyaunt778  +, writes (11 March 2010):
I agree with the previous post. If I was your cousin I would want to know asap so I could break off the engagement. Maybe he genuinely likes you (since you have the same taste in music, etc.) but he is very immature about how to go about it, especially because he is engaged to someone else and you are still by law underage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): We all flirt, but I think he’s into you. I would let him know my concerns first. If you like him then you need to make a decision, anyway you look at it your cousin will be hurt.
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reader, ElectricSheep +, writes (11 March 2010):
 You're definitely NOT overreacting. What he's doing is out of the line. DON'T fall for him, I think you might be falling for the attention he's showing you, not him.
It will be hard telling your cousin, but it's something that needs to be done.
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