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writes:I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, we both have children from previous relationships, everyday he says he loves me, we have had problems in the past with his ex, she has called me in the past to tell me my boyfriend was cheating on me with her, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and chose not to believe her, shes trouble she has been in prison, I have helped my boyfreind to take care of his little one, now his ex is out of prison im feeling inscure, i asked my boyfriend lets get engaged and his answer was theres no rush, what do you think he really means?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): It means act in haste and repent at leasure. Putting a ring on your finger and signing a piece of paper is no guarantee.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): What do you mean when YOU say "what does it mean?" It's clear honey...THERE I NO REASON TO RUSH. It sounds like you may be just as insecure and his ex is about a relationship and committment. Besides a woman shouldn't be asking, begging or hinting for a man to marry her, let the guy do it on his own.
The most important part is making sure the emotional committment is in tact first and foremost and a relationship or marriage isn't going to make that happen. If the person doesn't love you, getting married or having kids isn't going to change a thing. Once the emotional committment is made, there is not need to rush into marriage unless you care about your soul salvation and wish to marry for the sake of saving it.
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