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Neither of us have moved on, should I travel to see her??

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Question - (29 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

should i visit my ex girlfriend who now lives in another country.

We dated for one year, then she left due to her visa expiring. We’ve stayed in touch and have been talking more recently.

I don’t see how a long term relationship could work, but we really don’t have anything else going on in our lives right now. Also, we usually have a great time when we hang out together, and it would be nice to ‘get some.’

It’s just kind of weird because it’s like going from being oceans apart to being together for a week straight like we were dating again. However, we never actually “broke up” we just figured we both would have moved on after she left, but neither of us have.

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A male reader, StevenTasker United States +, writes (29 July 2010):

So just hang out when you can and continue to be friends with benifets. It could become worse down the line if one of you finds someone new, but I think it's the best option for right now.

Hope this helps you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010):

I don't see how it could hurt if you are both very very very clear with eachother that this is just temporary.

Might as well 'get some' in my opinion!

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (29 July 2010):

Well you wont know until you go see her? i say go for it sounds like you two wer'e very respectful of one another! and you are just curious if the spark is still there.

Have Fun!

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