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reader, rivi  +, writes (31 July 2010):
Even if you don't last very long before your orgasm you can still give her one finishing off with your fingers... ( or getting hard again after a while and going back for seconds ).
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 hahaha.. same here Gabrielle.. them 5minute jobs feel so respectfull and rewarding.. lol
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 July 2010):
The least.. that's easy.. untill you have enough orgasms to feel sleepy and hate sex...
Could be 5mins, could be an hour, could be a couple of days... it's a variable amount, based on your own situation, the strength of your commitment, how much sex you need and how much time you need.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Well I start to chafe(sp) after about 15 mins. my bf has lasted for about an hour before and i told him that all that time is a little painful. so about 15 is good for me.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 In my mind it's not duration as much as it's all about frequency. My goal is 4 times per hour don't always make it but I try and try again. No complaints yet.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Well ideally an hour or two but that's incredibly wishful thinking!!! My boyfriend has lasted about 15 minutes at the longest with me, sometimes less than 10 though.Try using the 'stop start' technique to build up your resistance. Masturbate and, just before you get the urge to cum - stop. Squeeze your penis so nothing can come out. When the desire to cum has gone, start again and repeat the whole process.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 July 2010):
 I don't think there is a set timer for how long a guy should last... However I DO think it's nice if the guy can get the girl of BEFORE he's done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): It depends, if your tierd or in a rush then a 5 minute quicky is plenty long.
If you have all night alone together and your both really enjoying it then go for as long as you can.
If your rubbish then hurry it up and if your amazing make it last ;)
You can usually tell if a girl is enjoying herself fully because she will be willing to change positions and move around etc... if shes having a rubbish time and wants you to come quick she will probably stay in one position hoping that you just do your business and get it over with.
Read the signs :P
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (29 July 2010):
It depends on the girl. If she is really into it, you don't stand a chance. Guys like to believe the can be better in bed than a woman...yeah right. The more excited a woman is, the faster you are done.
You want to give a woman a good time?? See how long she can handle foreplay :)
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (29 July 2010):
 I assume you mean how long a guy should 'last' before he ejaculates.
As an inveterate sperm-lover, my answer would be no more than five minutes. However, most women are more patient than that and would expect half-an-hour of service at the very least.
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