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writes:to start off with, my boyrfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In the summer we dont see eachother much due to us working everyday, we are both 21. whe broke up with me last summer and got back together in october, broke up with me in february and were back on in april. It really has been great up until now. I feel he doesnt give me enough attention, so I nag about it, and he hates that. We are becoming far apart, and have had about 4 serious talks on what we each want. I feel like he is just with me to be a security blanket. He says he loves me, but there is this little tension there, like he really doesnt. My question is am I just paranoid in what has happened in the past, or should I be worried. I dont know if i should put my gaurd down and give it my all, or say good bye. either way is going to be hard in the end. he tells me I am a great person ( which I know) and that he loves me, but he just hates the negativity, which I totally agree with. in the summer we dont see eachother very much, and he lives with his roommates, and I live with mine.. what should I do? I feel like I have talked to him about it so much that he knows how i feel, and I feel like if I bring it up again, its nagging...
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reader, luvingme21 +, writes (29 July 2010):
 I know how you feel, maybe you should try experimenting. Maybe you should just stop talking, and see what he does. Test him and observe his thoughts,moves etc. Will your "naggin" finally kick in when you're no longer complaining anymore? I don't know -That was just a suggestion.
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