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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been waiting for this girl for 2 and a half years already. She is in a relationship with her bf for 4 years plus. She knows her relationship is unhealthy. There have been couple of break ups in between these 4 years but they patched backed. She has feelings for me too but her feelings for him is stronger. She knows how is her relationship like. Her bf is very possessive. She have been emotionally hurt by him many times. Its just hard for her to break up with him because she's afraid she can't move on. Once she told me she deserves a better guy. Why she still chooses to stay even though knowing the character of her bf and being hurt by him many times? Can she ever end this relationship with this guy for good?
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (29 July 2010):
You say she still has feelings for you well i would wait until she is out of her relationship! have respect for her and yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): sweetie you asked this question a couple of days ago...but i see you only got two answers although they were good ones...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-she-stay-in-this-unhealthy-relationship.html
You are wasting your time...this girl keeps going back to him, she knows that he is bad news, but she makes the choice. Its not going to change, and for you to keep being there makes you very much not boyfriend material. You have moved into the best friend/brother zone. her protector and her rescuer..but not her lover.
Please move on and find happiness. hugs, mal
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