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writes:Been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. never loved a person so much in my life, im his first serious girlfriend and first love. im 5 and half months pregnant with our first baby, and we are just doing up our new home, we should be so happy right?but all we seem to do is argue and snap at eachother, he mainly starts them all by ignoring me. he keeps threatening to leave me, which leaves me terrified and gets me stressed. he came home from work a few nights ago and has ignored me for 2 days, i havent even done anything wrong to him, i started crying to him asking why he was being so distant and quiet, but he never tells me nothing. im so stressed out and cant stop crying. he just leaves me sat there crying, dont even try and resolve things, or comfort me. i need him more than ever right now, im so down. please give me some advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, bronxchica20  +, writes (1 August 2010):
 that's not right..he shouldn't be doing that..what is going thou his head?..he needs to grow up and be there for you and your child..so your family doesn't believe you because he acts all lovey dovely around them..you need to tell him whats going on with you...you shouldn't be stressing while your 5 months and a half..if you still need someone to talk to you. can talk to me..i know we dont know each other but i can give you some more advice if you likegood luck and tell him
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthing is it would be nice to have my family and friends to turn to, but they aint here for me. they take his side, he acts nice to me infront of them, but when they are not there he treats me quite bad, that no one believes he does that. so i feel trapped and have no one here for me right now. all i want is for someone to talk to, never felt so alone.
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reader, Lookingforwisdom +, writes (29 July 2010):
This sounds awful, especially when you're heavily pregnant. You need to tell him exactly what he's doing to you and make him feel guilty for it. If he doesn't snap out of it and start acting like an adult about to have a child then you need to realise that you have other options. Your friends and family will be really important to you in this time, share your problems with them.
I hope this works out for you.
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