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writes:He's dating a new girl a few weeks after we broke up. I am very hurt and he wasn't emotional at all during our break up, it was very easy for him. How do I stop feeling hurt about the fact that he's off and dating now?
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reader, kcfudge  +, writes (29 July 2010):
i went through this last year and its hard. you have to move on . spending time with friends and family helped me through it. it gets a little easier every day. i promise. good luck to you. your guy is out there somewhere , you just haven't met him yet. see ya, karen
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 July 2010):
 By realizing it's over. Take some time to mourn the relationship then YOU need to let go and move on too.
Maybe... he mentally left the relationship a LONG time before you and thus can move on faster/sooner.
Not all people move on with the same speed or in the same manner. Some go out and find the first available rebound others stay solo for quite a while before they are ready to jump back in the pond.
Also, whatever he does, is HIS business.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): It was easy for him because, he did not feel as deeply as you did about the relationship...if he felt anything at all.
How long were you guys together and what was the reason for the break up to begin with?
That is what single people do...they date. You are going to have to find a way to get past the emotions you have for this guy. It may take awhile, but for your sanity you will need to find a way to get over him. And in the future, don't give so much of yourself to any guy or a relationship. It's ok to love and care about a person, but I wouldn't suggest getting too close to the point that if you had to leave, you can't due to the emotional attachments you have.
Also, STAY AWAY FROM DATING AND RELATIONSHIPs. This is diffcult for most people because, they are so hurt that they are looking for a "fix" a way to get rid of the emotional pain, so they jump right into dating or a relationship with someone they may never grow to love because, of the emotional attachment to the previous person.
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reader, albal  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 you should learn from now men don't really show there emotions. if they do then very rarely. maybe to cover up his emotions he moved on and found someone else? maybe you should try that, he may be bothered too... x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): at times, guys arent as attached in relationships as girls are. this may sound harsh, but you just have to realize you two are over. it may be because it just happened a few weeks ago, but the hurt will leave. just give it time, and try not to think about him
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 What I would do is go get a pint or two or three and "wash that man right outa my hair" There are a gazillion other guys...go get one and forget about the last one!
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