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male
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30-35,
*obwinston
writes:ok ive been talking to this girl for about to weeks and i really really like her and i made sure to get to know her and find out her likes and dislikes and i made sure to remember little things and make sure she knows i remember.we have gone out a couple time and i guess we are a couple bu the way she acts.but lately when we text i cant seem to really think of anything to talk about and i end up not texting back becus she puts no effort into the coversation....i jus wanna be able to start a conversation and make it interesting
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Lack of communication is probably one of the biggest frustrations in a couple.
First off, try to figure out if you REALLY are a couple, and then, step by step, talk about ANY random thing.
Communication isn't just "talking", it's about reciprocity, understanding each other etc.
If she won't cooperate, don't let it get you down, you're young and I'm sure other girls would love to talk to you, girls like talkative guys. If she doesn't like it, maybe she's not the one, so... moving futher :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): I am surprised after only two weeks you are running out of things to say. Texts are usually short and boring. Try calling more and instead of leaving short texts back and forth, have a good conversation. Make it about anything and everything. Stuff going on during the day in each others life, things you see on the news, or pop culture items. If you know her likes and dislikes, talk about things she likes and is interested in. Just be random and have fun. Dont worry too much about making good conversation, just let it flow and enjoy the time you spend talking to her.
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