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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend of 18 mths that I live with (with my 13 yr old son), and is 10 years younger than me, is no longer very interested in sex. I feel ashamed because I am, I fancy him to death! He's still very loving and thoughtful towards me. What's gone wrong? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): I would try to just be open with him. Tell him how you feel and ask him if anything is wrong. Perhaps you can try new things and explore some fantasies. Understand why he has lost interest all of a sudden and see if there is anyway to spark his interest once again. Dont feel like its your fault at all. Think of it this way, he has been having a great time with you for so long now. Everyone is different. He might have some things on his mind and just lost his drive all together. Maybe he is feeling depressed. You are not gonna know until you open up and talk about things. Make him understand you arent trying to push him, you are just concerned and want to make sure everything is alright.
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