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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am 15 in 2 months time, and my girlfriend is 15 in about 5 months time.We have been together for a few months short of a year, but in the last few months we've been together my girlfriend has begun to be really grumpy and moody with me.In our relationship we have a rule that we're not allowed to meet the opposite sex, I can't meet girls, she can't meet boys. She didn't love this rule but she accepts it.In our relationship I act more like the girl than she does, if we fall out, i'll be the one running after her a few hours later, i'm the one always loved up and wanting to be cute and normal.I am ready to go all the way, but she is not, sometimes this annoys me but i can live with it. We have done things before just have not been all the way. Anyway, lately (last 2/3 months) we argue non stop, and not being mean in any way, but i think that most of it is her fault. I will say something as a joke and she will start being all moany and touchy...we speak non stop, both have unlimited texts and the only time we don't speak is when one of us falls asleep at night, is this healthy for a relationship? In an hour i say we send about 20/30 messages on a weekend, on school days maybe 5/10 an hour. I don't quite understand how i can turn this relationship around? she says she still loves me but she also says she doesn't think we can be fixed.We have been trying for a long time.Please help me? What should we do, how should i act, how often should we text, how should i treat her?Thanks,L.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 I wonder who's paying their phone bills...
It happens when a relationship reaches a certain stage. It's called fatigue. Ease off a bit - sometimes less is more.
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