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anonymous
writes:hi, I have been with my bf three months now, he was my ex, four years ago we had a relationship, it was a very powerful relationship in the positive and the negarive side, we broke up and we kept loving each other in a secret way, now we are back, and it's very confusing for me, he is calm, when I see him, he is an angel BUT the thing is that he keeps disappearing, we don't live together so he is doing what ever he wants and I don't know any thing, and I'm not sure that I have the right to ask him what he has been doing...I miss him, all the time, but it seems that he is fine with a few dates, like 4 or 5 by month,we have sex everytime we meet, we talk a little but I feel so good when I'm with him, I'm afraid that it's becoming an addiction, I need help with this guy, I feel so weak, I cry all time when he doesn't call or text or show up!! please help!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Personally I am not a fan of rekindled relationships as I think they seldom work out. It kind of reads like he's having his cake and eating it too bargaining on the knowledge that he knows you can't ask too many questions or he will dissappear again.
Do you really want to live like this waiting around for his crumbs? I would move on if I were you.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 You have the right to ask, and he has the right not to answer. I would advise against asking, though. Whether a man has been with a girl for 2 days or 2 decades, he hates being questioned about where he's been. Unless you have reason to think he's been cheating (I doubt it in this case), just let it be.
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