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writes:hi im 32,ive been with my partner for eight years. he keeps saying he isnt ready for children and doesnt want to get married. just lately he hasnt been coming home and says he's worked late and is staying with a friend?a few months ago he went to stay with his family in albania, a woman called from his phone saying she was his fiancee and i should forget him. his reply to this was it was his couisn playing a joke???? i no longer have any trust and feel the only way is to end this. is it me or is the whole thing just too much of a 'coinsdence?' excuse spelling!!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 Too many red flags - unwilling to ocmmit, Albanian background and probably a fiancee sitting back in his home country waiting for him.
The question is, what are you waiting for?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 July 2010):
 I think you need to listen to your GUT INSTINCTS and dump the dude.. If he is not ready after 8 years, he never will be...
And.. I think there is a good chance he is cheating.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Yes, my gut says "CHEATER!" Of course, that's based only on the evidence you've given. Is what he said possible? Yup, definitely in the realm of possibility. The staying out all night is a bad sign though.
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reader, albal +, writes (29 July 2010):
 maybe he is cheating, the thoughts running through your head are absolutely normal. like his 'fiance' said, just forget him. if he really wanted to be with you he would try and come home every night to see you he would be. maybe that isnt what you want to hear, but think about it for a split second. good luck, xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): Leave him....it's been eight years and if he doesn't what to take it to the next level..he never will. This guy is probably in his 30's anyways...he should have grown up by now. The fiance also needs to wake the hell up and leave her because, he was two timing her as well.
The guy is lying and I hope you don't fall for it.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 spelling wasint my best subject ether. i'd say you might ought to begin looking for another mister right
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