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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We were in a long distance thing for about a year. I lived in her city for about 7 months. We were amazing together. I guess the distance broke us. During this 6 months apart I've been dating and doing my thing and so has she. She is with someone totally out of character for her a bad boy. She calls me often and texts me telling me she misses me and how special we were together. I didn't react at all but as time went by I started to miss her and realized how truly in love I was with her. I told her all this and no reaction from her besides some crying and being in shock she said she was speechless not cause she didn't care but because she did. Dating these other women only made me realize that this is the women I love more then anything I'm movimg very close to her for work and would love to be with her once again. Any advice would help please
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (30 July 2010):
 If you are absolutely suree that you love her and want to be with her (which to my mind it seems you do) then do not waste another second...call her, arrange to meet her and tell her face to face (that way you can see from the facial expressions and body language, if she feels the same way).
The great thing for men is that they CAN make the first move and women love it.
If she is in another relationship, then it's up to her whether she chooses to stay or go...but lay your cards on the table (in person)and see what happens.
I am rooting for you...x
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reader, ConfusedMuch? +, writes (29 July 2010):
Go for it! You are already aware of the fact that it was the distance, not either of you two, that had caused the initial breakup. From what you stated, your ex feels the same way as well, so discuss the options with her. The only other advice you need is: think about the long term. Everything is amazing for you, why not make the commitment to, at the very least, stay in the same general area?
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