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writes: Okay, so i'm freshly sixteen and my sixteen, almost seventeen, boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over three months(:- about a month ago, now, he told me he loves me...i'm not complaining, i don't think it's too early, because i mean if you feel it, you feel it, but i'm just wondering...how do i know he MEANS it? i mean he's an amazing boyfriend, agrees to keep me a virgin, always sends me things to wake up to (texts), when i'm with him he does that cheesey stare into my eyes, saying he loves me haha, but idk, i just want to know how a guy typically acts when he means "i love you"... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (29 July 2010):
Just let things flow. Tell him "I love you" back and enjoy your time together, that's all you can do.
If you tend to be insecure about it, just tell him "I don't want you to say things you don't mean". So, if he's a smart guy, he'll get the point. If he gets it, he will refrain from saying "I love you", or, the opposite, he will tell you until you have enough.
On the other hand, it's more important to SHOW your partner you love him, not just telling him.
Does he show you, does he treat you like a person he loves, do you feel loved and appreciated around him, or he simply declares his love while scratching his balls ? :)
Best of luck!
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reader, IstillLoveU +, writes (29 July 2010):
I think it's different from guy to guy how they are, some guys does lie about they love you, just to get you in bed. but it's hard to tell about your boyfriend, because you don't tell much about him, and how he treats you..
Do YOU think that he means it?? does it feel like he does??
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