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writes:Hi Agony Aunt!There's this guy I like,we'll call him *Sam*.His horse is at the same yard as my horse. He's a year younger than me. We'd been flirting for a while. I tried so hard not to give him mixed signals because I knew that if he asked me out I wouldnt go out with him because he's younger than me. So anyway, for Valentine's day he asked me out. I said no, and then sort of regretted it... Everyone I know found out. Everyone in his family. Everyone!! It was so embarrassing. I used to see him at least twice a week at the yard, but now he's avoiding me because everyone teases him about him asking me out. I feel so sorry for him because he's so nice, and I really love him. I miss him so much! I just really dont know how to act or what to do! Please help!!??xxx
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 Age does not matter at all, it seriously doesn't, not ever, love is love. He asked you out and you said no and now you feel bad about it. The right way to go now is to say sorry and tell him the reason why you said no. Then tell him how you really feel about him and if you actually want to go out with him, even only one time to see how it feels like, just ask him yourself. There's nothing to be scared of. If other people giggle, just ignore them. Going out with somebody is really great. Who knows, you might actually start to like him even more than you planned. It's not embaressing that everybody knows you like somebody. It will go away when you actually took the jump and asked him out. Experience a real date with a boy. People will always be teasing you, even when you're an adult :) The trick is to ignore everybody else and be focussing on everything you wish for. In this case, you and that him and your love.
The right way to act? It's to follow your heart and not be afraid what others think. Be true and be brave and honest and be a good person. Ask him out yourself because he won't ask you out a second time now that you already said no. There's no point in not doing anything. You'll have to take the step and be brace to take the leap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): hi
i dont understand if you "love him" then whats the problem. you said hes younger than you but by how much is it that much a difference that there would be a problem.... if so then maybe its best that you not see him for a while after all he would be feeling very rejected at this time.
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