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male
age
30-35,
*7andconfused
writes: My girlfriend and i have been on a break for a week and a half. She is the one who wanted to break up for a while. I havent been texting her or calling her lately and today she said it feels like i fell off the face of the earth. She said that she wants to talk tonight. I want to go back with her so what should i do or say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): Is this a break that allows seeing other people?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (24 February 2010):
Ask her questions about what happened , where she went, , how is life etc....to show your interest in her. Go with the flow.
Listen to what she has to say...Relax and enjoy .Be calm and act confident.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 February 2010):
You don't need to say anything. You just need to listen. You need to listen because she was the one who wanted the break, so she is the one who has to do some explaining to do. Listen to her and what she has to say.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (24 February 2010):
It sounds like she has a problem with the fact you haven't called or texted her so make it clear that although you would've loved to speak with her, you thought she wanted some space and you were just trying to offer her that.
All you can do is be honest, if you want to get back with her then tell her that. You obviously both decided to take a break for a reason, have you resolved those issues? Find out if she thinks things are better now too. Good luck
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