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Why am I sabotaging my relationship?

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Question - (24 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi,

I'm in a wonderful relationship, so good in fact we are getting married later this year. My problem is that recently i have been feeling down and feel that my girlfriend no longer wants me. It has got that bad that i'm now feeling angry, accusing her of cheating and generally just messing up everything we had. I dont understand where all this is coming from and i feel lost, its ruining our relationship, i dont want to lose her and need advice, can anyone help me???

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A female reader, Weramazing United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2010):

Weramazing agony auntHi, has something happened recently that has knocked your confidence? Maybe losing a job or any thing else that could have made you feel like you are not good enough for her?

You must have a think about how you got here and what is making you feel like this, there has to be something. Talk to her and apologise for the way you have behaved. Also stop behaving like this towards her as it will push her away and she may not even go through with the wedding.

It does sound like you still love her just think of how you want your relationship to be, communicate and make it happen.

Good luck.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2010):

This might be pre-marital nerves. Get talking to her and say that you're just feeling a little nervous about it all and need some reassurance. Get talking to her.

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