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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So lately I have not been feeling very good about my boyfriends and my relationship. I feel like crying.and also I have a weird feeling that he is cheating on me. Because last week he left work and went to wendys to get some food and he ordered two meals with two different drinks. Then this past weekend he came to visit me at school because I'm in college and we live 4 hrs apart. he is also about 7 years older than me so he rented a hotel and everything was going good then Sunday came around and he didn't want to have sex and he was in a rush to leave. And I'm wondering if I'm just being paranoid or if he really is. Then I updated my facebook status and it said I was at a crossroad and he texted me and asked me if it was about him and I was at a loss of words. I didn't know what to tell him now he is acting all weird. I just need advice on what to do. I told him I was having some mixed feelings about our relationship but I wasn't really specific.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 February 2010):
Well you made a good start by saying that you had mixed feelings. Because now he has to make an effort. Get talking to him and see what comes out. Just ask him about how he feels about it all, and in the meantime keep your eyes open for other things that might indicate that he is cheating. For example, how did you find out about the food he ordered? There could be an innocent explanation. See what he says about all this.
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