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writes:please somebody, im begging you for urgent help :(im due on my period on the 3rd march, but tonight (23rd) i had sex with my partner and for some stupid reason i had unprotected sex with him - we never do, please don't ask my why :(he didnt pull out in time, and altho we'd already had protected sex once that day so he didnt have as much cum as normal, some still went up me.im terrified and don't know what to do - should i hope for the best as my periods due on in a week, or get the emergency contraceptive tomorrow?please, any advice is so much appreciated. thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): thank you so much guys, im gonna go get the morning after pill this afternoon as i have class this morning, but its better than nothing.thanks
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reader, countrygal462  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 if ur period is due in a week, its really unlikely that you will be pregnant. u most likely were not ovulating so you should be fine. but u shood go to ur doctor ASAP. and talk about a morning after pill and definantely birth control. it has saved me a few times :) best of luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 February 2010):
morning after pill as quickly as possible, then talk to the doctor about going on the contraceptive pill as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): The emergency contraceptive only works if you are inbetween 24 hours of the relationship... so if you are not, the shot will not work, you can take it, ut it will not work. You can try, there is nothing to loose and pray God that doesnt happen, otherwise, be a happy family.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Even if he did pull out before he ejaculated inside of you, you could still fall pregnant. Pre-cum has sperm cells inside it that can also get you pregnant. It's a myth that you can't get pregnant if he pulls out. It also doesn't matter how much, it only takes one sperm out of millions. So what if there were only 30 million instead of 50 million. It only needs one.
I'm sorry but there's really no way to tell whether you're pregnant or not. Even if you bought a pregnancy test, you'd need to wait a couple of weeks or so to use it, and then you'd know anyway. I can't help and make you feel better because I can't promise anything, but my friend had unprotected sex around eight times and didn't fall pregnant once... Meh. At least you've learned not to do it again.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 In order to stay sane, go and have the pill. You'll just worry yourself silly thinking about it. Go and see a doc
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Emergency contraceptive always.
Hoping for the best is too late to change anything if you do get pregnant.
Hopefully in future you will remember the condom :P
Have you also considered alternative contraception such as the pill or an implant (dont need to remember)?
Check out the info below:
http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Contraception/Pages/Introduction.aspx
P.s They do not stop STI's only a condom will do that. So if you want to completely swap and not use a condom, get yourself and your partner tested.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): Get the morning after pill!
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reader, theaterlover +, writes (24 February 2010):
If i were you, I'd get the morning after pill to be safe. Better safe than sorry.
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reader, unknown goddess +, writes (24 February 2010):
My advice is to get the morning after pill asap. but its only effective up to 72hours after you've had unprotected sex, the sooner you take it the more affective it will be. also so you dont have to be worry about this in the future go see your doctor about the contraceptive pill so if you do get caught in the moment-which im guessing is what happened- than you are still protected 98%. good luck :)
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