I think he is having an affair with a colleague of mine. How can I find out?

A female age 51-59, *londepatricia writes:

I have been married for the past 3 years to a man who is also my work colleague. We lived together, at my house, for 5 years before that. I was wealthy when we married; my husband was not. Since my marriage, due to a very bad investment, I have lost an awful lot of money. My husband was never ambitious or rich and he doesn't do much around the house. Three years after my marriage, I have the feeling that I've married a teenager. He stays locked up in his room and plays the guitar (he's 60), and he makes almost no money at his job. I also have the feeling that something is going on because lately there have been a lot of anonymous calls to my house, and when I answer there's no one on the other end, but when he answers, he moves away and whispers, and then looks quite agitated. I think he's having an affair and I think it's with a colleague of mine. How do I find out if it's true?

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