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51-59,
anonymous
writes: hi , i got married after my MIL expired. my husband works with my FIL same co. , after marriage i realised my husband does get to keep any money with him he has to ask his father , even though father is getting pension , it is very annoying,as in our family we are allwd to keep our salary to our selves in our acount.My husband doesnt even have a penny or bank account to his credit.he tells me now all his money is used for his sibling higher education.im fed up , his siblings dont even acknowledge that they are getting education of my husbands money, they feel it is their fathers money( as money is kept with father). im fed up my husband has no say in the house nor do is, it is the unmarried siblings n FIL who do the money controlling. advice me pls as i n my husband constantly fight abt this , he cannot stand for his wife n child in front of his family.pls help
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reader, Miamine +, writes (2 March 2010):
Sorry about the long wait.. I'm was hopping one of our Indian aunts would answer you. Your post is difficult to understand. What is MIL and FIL? Why are these important?
Your husband and you both work, why is he giving all his money to his father when he has a wife and child to support? I'm sorry, but I don't understand. Set up a new bank account and stop paying his family so much money.
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