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writes:I have this "ex" we ended on bad terms, not that I had anything to do with it, yes seriously. It happened 17 years ago in High School, I really liked her... a lot. Well I got into some trouble at school and got suspended. While I was suspended, this other girl beat the piss out of her for hanging around this other guy (not that they were doing anything). Well this other girl had the hots for me and she calls me and tells me all about it and I was like "Why?"Well I called up my GF who got beaten up and she thinks I sent this other girl after her and I told her I had nothing to do with it. She didn't believe me and never talked to me again.Seriously, I didn't even know what had gone down and as soon as I did I called her! I really liked her and even though I am completely happy today, I really sometimes think about the missed opportunities. Well I have run across her profile online and part of me wants to leave the past... well, in the past but another part of me wants to at least be heard about that day. I feel as if I never got to tell my side of the story. What to do? Should I drop her a line? Should I even mention, or just approach her platonically? Reply to this Question
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (26 February 2010):
 It happened 17 years ago, so my advice is to let it go. However, if it means that much to you, start talking to her and bring it up. Chances are that she has matured quite a bit and will be willing to talk about it now.
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