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writes:I really appreciate all the advice and answers that have been given. I have one more question to ask the men. If your wife slept with someone else while you while separated from each other. Could you take her back if she had changed? I made a lot of mistakes before he left and i have realized them. I live with him but he still really doesnt want to have anything to do with me anymore or even to be married anymore. Since I know this pain does take time to heal I am wanting to know from the men if there is an amount of time that i should wait and what should i do on the bad days. He wont admit to it but we do have good days today was one of the bad ones though. His parents are influencing him as well to kick me out and get a restraining order against me just because i came back. Please help! If you need more background, we posted another question on here around Janurary 22, 2010 called Marriage problems, BOTH of us are writing for help!http://www.dearcupid.org/question/marriage-problems-both-of-us-are-writing-for.htmlThanks for reading! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): He may never stop hurting from it. Prepare yourself for this because it's a real possibility.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 February 2010):
It could take a while before he turns around. Months even before you see any change. You just have to keep gently working at turning him to your side.
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