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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): let me put it this way- used the pull out method. Now have 8 year old. enough said. If he refuses to use contraception when you ask, he doesn't love you. Simple (yes, it really is) simple as that.
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 The Pull out method does not work.Get a test, and start using proper protection (if your not already pregnant).You should also have a STD/SDI check to make sure you havnt cought anything nasty!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010): With all do respect why in the world are you having unprotected sex? Its asking to get pregnant and its such a high risk of pregnancy its the worst form of method of contraception going. Condoms are an easily form of protection to obtain and I suggest you incorporate that into your regular sex life or your going to end up having the stalk deliverning a baby to you.
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 The pull-out method is the absolute worst precaution you can do. CaringGuy is absolutely right - men have a pre-cum before they ejaculate and most of the time (I think) they don't even notice the pre-cum. Also, shooting it on the outside of your parts is dangerous of making you pregnant: it can drip (or be wiped, etc.) into your hole, which may make you pregnant. Use a condom next time you guys have sex.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 February 2010):
You will get pregnant very shortly if you continue with this. Men also have precum which has sperm in it, and it comes out before they ejaculate.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (24 February 2010):
 There's probably a high chance you are pregnant. Before a man ejaculates, he releases a mini load of semen called pre-cum that also contains sperm. Men can't feel this so can't stop before this happens, and so there is a high chance you could be pregnant. Also, he ejaculated onto your "area". A sperm cell could easily find its way through that maze without ANY trouble. It only takes ONE out of like 50-600 million sperm or something like that. The pull out method gets more women pregnant than condoms. Use them.
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reader, pinkgoblin15 +, writes (24 February 2010):
 My friend was doing the pull out method that was the biggest fail in history she's now 10 weeks prego lololol
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Yes you can get pregnant... Men have pre-cum, that's a mini ejaculation before they totally come. This can get you pregnant too. The pull out method is the worse type of contraception there is. You have a high chance of getting pregnant if this is the only method you use.
The success rate of the pull out method can be increased if you know when your most fertile.
Silly behaviour if your not looking to get pregnant. Condoms have a 98% success rate especially if used with a spermicide for lubrication. Condoms also prevent against sexual disease.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): There are also trace ammounts of semen in the precum. Pulling out helps with the "full assault" but it is in no way a "good" contraception method.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (24 February 2010):
 yes you could be pregnant the pull out method can be succesful but its not just that easy.. you could be pregnant as it is less safe than using contreception.
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