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writes:Me and my bopyfriend are currently seperated but still living together and im 6 weeks pregnant "he knows" . he tells me he doesnt know what he wants. lately probably since nov his kid's mom (they have been sperated for about two years already), has been inviting him to be around her and kids a lot and they go out with the kids a lot now. the way he talks to her is like they are becoming really good friends. before he would only see kids on his scheduled time, but now its almost every day. she will call him to come over and if he says he's tired thekids will call him and tellhim to come over and over so he goes. i asked him if he wanted to get back with her and he said he didnt know, that he really likes going out with her and the kids because the kids are happy and its like a family thing and when me and him would go out he would say its not th same because he said he would love to be around the kids all the time but he doesnt think she has changed and still is selfish. I asked him if he thinks there's a good chance of them getting back together and he said no if there was he would have already gotten back with her. i asked him if he wanted me out of his life and he said no. i just dont know what to do at this point, it is hard living with him and just watch him leave to his ex's or hear them talk on the phone because she is constantly calling. i do love him and im so scared to go through him deciding to get back with her. I already have two kids from previous relationships and right now im at a point where i dont know what to do. i know he's not a liar or cheater and im just scared that one day he will just tell me he is leaving and going back with her. his kids are 4 and 5 yrs old and mine are 5 and 2. he would always tell me he doesnt see her like that anymore but i guess all this time they have been spending together with the kids might be makin him feel different.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Your separated but your six weeks pregnant? Did you get pregnant before or after you separated? Dose this guy know your pregnant? Are you still sleeping with him?
Why did you and him separate in the first place? If your separated, why is he still living in a house with you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): He may go back to her so he can be with his kids; spending time with them other than scheduled visits is making him happy. He might be realizing that he wants to give them a stable family life.
He has a history with their mother and their relationship is improving, so I suggest you brace yourself for the possibility that he may return to her. Actually, the two of you are broken up, so he's free to do what he wants anyway.
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