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*estdayever11/4/09
writes:ok, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 6 months but weve been 'TOGETHER" for a year, and she broke up with me...because she says she doesnt ever think she will ever love me.. but yet she is miserable..now that were broke up.. even tho we had a perfect relationship. no fights, went out about once every two weeks. idk..i just need some help people..why did she do this.. is there a chance of getting her back.. should i just try to get another partner, i just dont know..ill go a few hours and feel just fine.. then something will remind me of her then ill start thinking of her then get down in the dumps...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 April 2010):
If she doesn't love you, then there is no point in being together. She had you around because you were more of a comfort blanket. Don't take her back. You need to get over her because she just isn't in love with you. Time to move on.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 You do not give many details so mine is just a guess but maybe she meant the classic " I love you but I am not in love with you ". Everything was fine,no fights, etc. but perhaps she did not feel that "butterfles in the stomach " kind of sensation that one feels at the beginning of the relationship. Of course true love and companionship are more important fthan butterflies,but I can understand how a young girl needs to feel thrilled and elated in a relationship,not just getting along.
As for her being miserable,you do not mention when the break up happen. If it's recent,like a few days ago, her reaction is normal, the end of something is always an unsettling change even for who initiated it. If it's more time, like ,say,a couple of months, then it's different and you have good chances to get her back.
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