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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:All through high school I have known this guy now I"m 22 I have known him since I was about 16 or 17 through the ups and downs of life I have been friends with him in high school we made out a few times we didn't go out we always made out. I always worried about him he got drunk always got into trouble I had to foucus on school we remained friends. Well we got older he joined the army got him life together and comes and contacts me we hung out he said I"m looking for a girl to settle down with I was with someone I said justin don't talk like that. He asked me out I was with someone I was with someone that didn't paid any attention to me really I didn't trust. I told him no we started drinking making out we had sex it was an amazing night we woke up in bed to gether I cheated on my boyfriend come to find out he was cheating on me. Justin asked me out again he was drunk. I didn't want to be his rebound. Then he asked me out again I was with someone. Now we are both single. We hung out we almost had sex we made out. After the night was over I said are we going out he said we will talk about it the the next day. I told him I liked him more than a friend in the text he said that's great. He was confused he would think about it. I'm miserable he told me he call me this week the weeks not over I rather would here a no then wander. I don't know what to do I"m going crazy I"m hurting what should I do?
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reader, raiders +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Give him a call and take initiative to this relationship. It seems you guys do your messing around and than wonder off. Than you two feel the urge to be with one another and this just keeps on going and going. I say take a big leap forward and go from there, hopefully he returns that feeling and you two can than be in a relationship. If he don't want anything but a friendship with you than you need to stand your ground and distance yourself from him. Don't become his friends with benefits. Good Luck!
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