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writes:have you ever had a problem that you have drivin yourself crazy over but just couldnt figure it out? well thats pretty much what i have here. i have a best friend that ive had feelings for over the past two years. she is one of the greatest girls ive ever met, she's almost as weird as me, she's beautiful, and she's one of my best friends. its easy to make her laugh if you try hard enough. she is wonderful. but the problem is that over the past two years we've become very close friends, and i dont want to mess that up. if i tell her how i feel and she doesnt feel the same way, that will make things awkward, and i dont want to ruin what we have right now. i would prefer if another teen would help with this but im open to everyones opinion of the situation.
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reader, flirtyfriends +, writes (27 December 2010):
 I'm a 14 year old girl with about the same situation. She sounds like a great girl,and in my opinion its better to tell her how you feel and watch her reaction then create it over in your head wondering what if. I can't say wether it sounds like she likes you or not because you didn't tell what all signals she's sending. Really its worth a shot though, you'll never know until you try. Maybe before you tell her start out slow, dropping ahint or two, and see if she does anything to prove she is into you the same way you like her. I wish you the best of luck my friend :)
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reader, paul739  +, writes (28 April 2010):
I am 26 but am in the same position as I have been best friends with a girl since we were 15. I told her and my opinion is that telling her shouldn't mess up your friendship IF it is as strong as you think it is. Maybe just make a passing comment to her first before coming straight out with how much you like her, see if you get any vibes from her, maybe she likes you too but is waiting for you to make the first move?
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reader, milo456  +, writes (28 April 2010):
It depends, can you feel ok just being her friend and never knowing if she felt the same?
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