A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: I'm 14 almost 15. I'm a freshman and this guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend. We have been together for a while now and my girlfriend says she loves me. I truly love her too. My girlfriend is the shy type. She doesn't want to be mean or n e thing n i can understand that. But my girlfriend says the guy talks to her on face book too. I spend most of the day talking to my girlfriend so I would know. She tells me every time he talks to her. My girlfriend doesn't know how to reject some1 and doesn't want to be mean or n e thing. The guy keeps hitting on her n complimenting her. Its getting really annoying. I can't screw up his face cause ill get suspended, but I cant stand it when he talks to her. he says shes hot. yah i agree, but its not rite when he says it. I need help quick what do i do? btw-- this one is hard...cause we dont let people at school know we're dating. It might spread to our parents n we're dead T.T... What do i do?.. I cant tell him to bak off because then hell ask. But everyone practically knows we're dating... im always around her n we touch n hold hands.. we dont admit it tho. I need help quick.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 You can try to be a better person than that other guy until he gives her up.
The second way is, two can play at that game. Flirt with other girls and make her feel what you are feeling now. This is called mirroring back to her .
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reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (28 April 2010):
Oh poor you.
However, there's nothing much that you can do.
There's only one reason that she talks to him - which is that she wants to.
You can't hope to keep a girlfriend by hiding her away from other guys or by "screwing up his face". You just have to trust that she likes you more.
If she doesn't, then it's her loss.
Just keep being nice to her, show her you love her by your thoughtfulness, and compliment her too.
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