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Fantasising about my wife with other men

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Question - (28 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age , *ill. writes:

I have been married 30 years and I keep fantasising about my wife with other men all started about 10 years ago when my wife has a checkup at a private clinic doctor gave her a full examination while I watched I couldn't believe it I got the biggest election over the head ever since fantasised about her with other men she was a virgin when I met and she has never been with anybody else other than an ex-boyfriend when she was 15 and only fondled her breasts I told her about my fantasies and she says one day maybe you never know I showed her on Yahoo web cam when she is getting dressed to other men without her knowing what should I do to persuade her

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (29 April 2010):

hi

you will find lots of guy share this thought and i am one. i love the thought of seeing my wife with another guy and have try a few things too, with her concent, like arranging her to have a full body nude massage whilst we was on holiday. she love it and i like it too.

you will need to be carefull andonly do what she will allow. i also found out a mate of mine was the same (a couple we go out with) so we have swapped pics and it does make it good the next time you go out with them knowing he as see her.

let us know hat you think

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (29 April 2010):

Not My Name agony aunt"you or she will lose respect for each other"

What are you talking about Anon poster, .... he already has no respect for her when he is taking secret web cam footage of her and plastering it on the internet.

Op, ... nothing wrong with your fantasy, nothing wrong if you both agree to indulge it, ... but your spy cam capers make you a pig!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010):

Im not so sure this is a good thing. Why would you want someone you claim to love and you are married to sleeping with someone else? I dont see it because usually in the long run you lose your spouse to someone else and if you dont completely lose your spouse you or she will lose respect for each other. You Might think wow this would be awesome but you really need to sit down and think this out. You Might find out in the long haul you really dont want to take any chances on losing her .

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