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*lilbitconfused
writes: Hi, im just trying gather some feedback on something thats bothering with me an my girlfriend. I've spoke to her about it and it's not really helped. We've been going out about 3 months now and just these past 2 weeks have been totally different. I still like her and she says she still likes me but she says things have "changed". Is there anyway we can go back to how it used to be ? She wont have sex with me anymore as the last time we did i couldn't maintain an erection, this was not her fault but she thinks im not sexually attracted to her anymore but i am. I am 18 and she is 19 so its not a really serious relationship, but i dont want to loose her just yet. What can i do to fix this ? Any help would be massively appreciative as i take break ups pretty hard.
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reader, Alilbitconfused +, writes (28 April 2010):
Alilbitconfused is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks very much for the reply ! She said i've changed how i act around her and im far to serious and cant take a joke. Nah shes not taken my feelings into consideration since then, i was confused and scared and had no idea what was going on but she didnt want to believe it wasnt her fault. Thats true, its just hard to accept at this moment as i really enjoy spending time with her family and friends ! Thanks for the advice :)
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reader, Alilbitconfused +, writes (28 April 2010):
Alilbitconfused is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni've been thinking about this and really dont want to loose her, i just want to make things better by them being how they used to be ! seriously any help would be appreciated greatly ! its driving me quite mad at the thought of loosing her :(
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reader, ladyjaye +, writes (28 April 2010):
sometimes you have to let go... she said things have changed did she tell you how?? is she considering your feelings about when you were unable to maintain an erection... I know it must have been uncomfortable and embaressing... You have plenty of time to meet other girls you are 18 at the end of the day your probably gona go through plenty more break ups before you find the one your going to hang on to for the rest of your life.... gud luck!!
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