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female
age
30-35,
*irabo Denise
writes:Dear Cupid my bf had broken up with his ex-girlfriend for about four months and we have been in love with him for about five months and then his ex came saying she pregnant and he is the one responsible, she also said that since she pregnant she is the one who is supposed to be with him and he may not bother to be with me or any other lover cause she is carrying his baby so my bf says he is still in love with me but his ex has threatened to do harm if we stay together. my bf says he doesn't love her but because she carrying his baby I have to leave him until she gives birth. I still love but I am confused should I leave him and get another one or I should wait as he said?
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 I would personally say wait.
I think you need to sit down with him and discuss this. So this girl may be carrying his baby, but hes not in love with her. He can stil be in love with you and be responsible for the baby aswell. But when the baby is born he should get a test done to see if it is his, or is she just trying to stir things up. When this baby is born, see what he does. As im not being harsh or nothing but his feelings may change or come out in the opening more, but for now id say let him have distance, but definitely keep in contact, and dont let him go !
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reader, hayyz +, writes (28 April 2010):
his ex has not got a right to say if you two shud be together or not but he does have a responsibility for his child that will require them two to sit down and work out good regular access to their child and i would suggest without you.i would tell him about the threats and make sure they are not tolerated but atheir child has a right ot be born in the world without all of this.there is a reason why them two broke up and their child can still b perfectly happy without mum and dad together as long as mum and dad are happy. geth them two to talk about all of this but make sure he makes it perfectly clear that he will carry on seeing you as she has no right to stop him from that.
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