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writes:well im 16 my boyfriend want to have sex whith me and i keep telling him am not ready and he keeps asking Reply to this Question
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reader, HaileyBurger  +, writes (29 April 2010):
 This comes from someone with the experience in that field I was 15 years old at the time and thought I found the love pf my life, he also kept nagging about sex I said to him maybe when I am 16 or older you know what he did; he wrote the number 16 all over letters he wrote me and one day i gave in and had sex with him when I wasn't ready to this day I regret it because a few months later he dumped me and I found out that I was one of 8 girls he slept with and that made me feel worse till today it haunts me and I am married. PLEASE wait do not let him force you, you will know when you are ready.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Don't allow your self to get pressure into sex, when you have sex it should be because you want to share your most intimate moments with someone who loves you and respects you.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Don't ever let him pressure you into doing something that is wrong or that you simply don't want to do. Tell him you're not ready for sex. Don't be afraid to stand your ground; he has no right to try to force you to have sex. Be sincere and direct and tell him that you're just not ready! If he doesn't respect your feelings, en dit with him and find someone who does.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Dump him if he can't respect your boundaries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): you NEVER have to have sex. period. Pressuring you into sex is as bad as rape. Hell, maybe it is rape. idk. Dont let him pressure you if you arent ready. Ive heard a lot of girls say they regret their first time because they were pressured into it before they were ready. Ive never met a girl who regretted waiting until she felt 100% sure.
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (28 April 2010):
Don't do it until you are ready. It should be a mutual thing, and when you do, please protect yourself from HIV-AIDS, Pregnancy & other veneral diseases.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 April 2010):
Tell him you are not ready again, and make it clear you will not be bullied by him. If he says it once more after that, then he just wants you for sex and nothing else, so you'd be better ending it with him. Never allow yourself to be bullied or used.
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