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writes:Hi everyone. I have asked for help previously and got some pretty good advice so I thought I'd try again. I think I made a terrible mistake last night and want to know what I can do to fix it. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend and got a lot of support from my close group of friends. Since the break we spend almost every day together and we have become closer than before. Two guys one girl. Recently everything got complicated as I started to develop strong feelings for one of the guys. Me and him are much closer than the other two. We talked (still do) for hours and hours and are constantly on the phone to each other(he also recently broke up). Yesterday after one of our marathon conversations he confessed that he is in love with the other girl but she doesn't love him (she is still technically married and hoping to get her husband back) I adviced him to tread carefully but when I saw how strong he felt I (foolishly) advised him to follow his heart even though I know she doesn't see him this way. I want him to be happy even if it is not with me. The same night the other male friend confessed he has strong feelings for me and we kissed. I feel that it is getting really complicated and wish I could go back to the times when we were all just really good friends. I don't know why I kissed him back. I honestly don't. I also don't see him that way. We have all been friends for at least four years and I feel since me and this guy broke up with our respective partners it is starting to fall apart I really want to fix it. Please help.
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reader, ladyjaye +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Tell the other friend who you kissed that you dont see him that way and that you were taking in by the moment and you just want to be friends. just because you kissed doesnt mean it has to turn into anything more. As for the guy you do have feelings for i would suggest that you keep them to yourself until he is over the married woman... tell him about the kiss and that you regret it see what he has to say maybe he will give you advice about how to handle the situation... i hope this helps... gud luck!!
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