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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I want my boyfriend of year and a half back. i lashed out on him for the first time because i was sick of him constantly verbally abusing me. i know i did wrong and i'm truely sorry - i would never do it again. he's adament he's not going to take me back and i know calling him and texting him is going to push him further away but i miss him and want him back. he doesn't apprecitate me turning up at his house and i've written him a letter but he didn't reply. how can i get him back?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 April 2010):
No you don't want him back. He was abusing you. You don't want him back. So focus on your future, which will now get better. Don't be a doormat, you're better than that.
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reader, ladyjaye +, writes (28 April 2010):
 move on with your life... and please stop harressing him its only making you foolish... it sounds as if your relationship was more a disaster... get councelling, get some self esteem and eventually get a new man and dont rush, once you see signs of things going wrong dont hang on to it let it go... it sounds as if you are more scared of being alone then actually in love with this man.... dont go back to him and dont let him come back if he decides he wants to revisit the doormat as he's obviously got you labelled... gud luck!!
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reader, It's all be okay +, writes (28 April 2010):
A man constantly verbally abuses a woman.
She is pushed to the end and finally reacts angrily to him and the relationship ends.
He is happy it has ended.
What does she do?
Calls him, texts him, writes to him, turns up at his house.
Look - that's wrong isn't it? When a man does not want to speak to you or see you any more, you accept it gracefully and retreat. You don't become like a deranged stalker.
And by the way? Why on earth would you want to "get back" a man who has constantly verbally abused you?
You might do best to spend some time figuring out that you deserve to be treated with respect, and to find someone who treats you like that.
While you believe that being verbally abused is all you deserve, you will continue to end up with men who treat you like that.
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