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writes:Hello everyone. I'm just going to get to the point. I can't seem to go long without sex or beating off. I want to stop doing both. All answers are appreciated. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the help. Yes it means masturbating. I want to stop because I feel I should not have to do that so much. Also I just don't feel clean and after It just feels pointless. Thank you all!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 I believe the only thing you can do is just stop. It has to be a choice you make every day, every time you feel the urge. Everytime you feel you want to do it start cleaning the house for example, or find something else to occupy yourself with.
But as the others said, being a teenager it is normal to get very horny and want to masturbate. Every teen age boy does it. Perhaps to relieve the pressure (as it actually is healthy to masturbate) you can schedule that every other day you will do it, or in the weekends or something? Then for the other times when you dont want to do it stay in public or in the company of someone so you literally can't go an masturbate.
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (28 April 2010):
You can do both. It is all in the mind. once you are occupied doing other things, sex wil be the last thing on your mind. let me warn you though: it is not going to be easy,but it can be done.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 April 2010):
You're a young guy, so your hormones will be all over the place. I don't think you need to worry about this at all.
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reader, It's all be okay +, writes (28 April 2010):
Is "beating off" masterbating? If so, why do you want to stop it? As far as I understand, it is normal and healthy to ensure that a man masterbates regularly. What are you really concerned about?
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