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writes: HELPHELPHELPHELP!!!That is like the 3 time i write here about the sama teacher,, ! last time wrote that he kissed me and i think i kissed back (i had a black out for a moment, don't remember anyrhing for like 15 seconds!),and yeserday he came to me in every break to talk to me and he hgged me and kissed me twice. Talking to him is great, i feel like i can tell him anythin, he tells me a lots of stuff too like about his family. And yesterday I wasn't feeling so good and he noticed and walked up to me in class when i was pretending to read (:S)ti hide my face. He like hugged me lightly and whispered to my ear to wait after class so we could talk... and he rubbed my back for like 10 seconds and then he went to his table but kept looking at me. MY friends who sits next to me looked at me like really surprised that i didn't do anything and told me exacly liked it looked like and that EVERYONE were looking. But after class he asked me what was wrong and i told him, and after that he kissed me like never before and i kissed him back and now i think i'm sure that i love him.... maybe.... like really love him.I just want to know what to do, I have like 5 yrs left of school and more if i go to an university..... and if it'll get more serius an just ,, anything that'll help !!
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (5 May 2010):
 Sounds like you need to give him a warning. Say something like "You should not be doing this, and if it continues I'll go to the Headmaster."
Tisha-1 is right. You must start listening to us. But I agree that you don't need to get the police involved at this stage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks every one, i talked to him and he stopped, and if he tryes anything again i'll talk to the head teacher and my parents but i'd like to leace the police out of it if that's posible,, i don't want the news paper to get something jucy,,,,
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reader, merlyn846  +, writes (29 April 2010):
 This teacher should be arrested and you are probably not the only girl he's doing this to... talk to someone about it before he hurts you or another young girl its illegal you need some HElP!!!!!!
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reader, missSamanthamary  +, writes (29 April 2010):
tell ur effing parents or the police , who cares how nice he is to u or how much u may "think" u love him , what hes doing its petofileish and u need to tell someone , that is serously messed up !!!
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (29 April 2010):
 My insticts are telling me that this is all your own little warped fantasy that you want to be reality, but since I am good at ignoring myself ...
Here is what would happen if this was true, .... you won't be able to resist confiding in a friend, who will then find it too juicy and go and tell a few other people, ...who will tell some more, .. and so on.
Next thing, ..this teacher and you will both be hauled up to the office where the police will be waiting to question him and perhaps haul him off in a divvy van to be charged.
Your parents will be rang, and you too would end up at the police station required to give a statement regarding all your interactions, a child psychologist would become involved with whom you will have to have lengthy discussions to help the police prepare charges against this teacher, and you will possibly be sent for a medical examination if they think you might have had sex with him and are covering up.
Meanwhile, police will go around to his house to notify his wife who will be rightfully shocked and disgusted and as statistics go, marriages rarely survive accusations of pedophilia against a partner wether proven or not.
His children will have their little worlds crushed to find out daddy is a dirt dog, and they too will have to attend sessions with a child psychologist because the family services dept will want to determine if there has been any risk to the children. These kids will be screwed up and probably have some sort of issue with this for the rest of their lives.
The teacher will loose his job, his family, and be jailed. he will not be allowed to contact you in any way, shape or form, and any feelings for you will turn to hatred as he sits in jail thinking about what you opening your mouth has cost him.
You will be gossipped about so much at school and in the community that you will want to change schools (even move towns) and will lose most of your friends in the process. Some of the gossip will be nasty too because not everyone is going to believe your story, and not everyone will see you as te victim either.
So, some major repercussions going on there, which is why, if this is in your head only, you need to stop it right now before all this damage is caused to so many people. If it is fact, then you need to protect yourself and others from his sick arse and inform someone in authority so he can be dealt with appropriately.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (29 April 2010):
 So could you remind me what advice you got the last two times? I think if things are going this way, you have no choice.
You have to tell your parents, the school counselor, or the head of the school. No more questions from you about this teacher, otherwise, people here will have to give up giving you advice, as you aren't listening. So sad.
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reader, The Great Mark Says +, writes (29 April 2010):
 wow... well i have to agree with ladyjaye. im not sure if i would put it the same way. i still agree thou. this man you should be very careful of and stay away from. as much as you think you like him or love him. hes still committing an illegal act as well as an unmoral one. you NEED to talk to your parents as well as the police as soon as possible. a teacher shouldn't do this and is very illegal. please do yourself a favor and talk to your parents and contact the police. as well as look into a lawyer.
good luck and take care...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): Wow. You have so many things messed up in that pretty little head of yours. No offense. But he won't you after he is done being pedophile with you. He'll move on to the next little girl. I believe everyone told you how wrong this is. I hope while you are at school you learn something along the lines of people like this good luck child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2010): I know it sounds cliche but if he really loves you he can wait for you and he certainly wouldn't be doing what he is doing. It's not so much that he is attracted to you and wants to kiss you but publicly touching you while in class, even on the back, and kissing you in the school building is wrong.Do you even know him outside of your teacher/student relationship? How do you know that you like him let alone love him? If he is serious about you and genuinely cares then he should be willing to take his time. He seems to be in an awful rush.You need to tell him that you don't want to take serious measures until you know him better and that any intimate personal relationship you two may have shouldn't occur until you are at least in University. You can be friends. You can get to know one another. But I wouldn't allow him to woo you with kisses and gentle behaviors just to get you to let him have his way only to leave you when he's done with you. I have no way of knowing if that is his intention. But if he gets defensive to tries to make any excuse for not waiting for you then you know he isn't worth your time and you should probably report him to his superiors as well as assure that you are never alone with him again.
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reader, ladyjaye  +, writes (29 April 2010):
 what your teacher has done is illegal, infact it is very much against the law... it is called abuse of power... this is going to end really badly, this man needs to be arrested... first of all you are underage! second of all he is your teacher and third of all this is called grooming. you need to speak to your parents and the police, who knows what he could be doing to girls even younger than you.... dont think for one minute that what he is doing is right it is completely and utterly disgusting and wrong... dont fall for his sick perverted game... gud luk!
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