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male
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anonymous
writes:Hi my name is Roman and I'm going through a break up or a split up with my wife we are married for 3 years and have two kids I'm 26 years old my wife is 21 by the why I'm Russian so we were thought to get married young well for my wife it was but the thing is she wants to move out she works that when every thing changed she used to be depend on me but not she changed i lost my company do to the economy and got depressed that could not provide for my family i started drinking but i still keeped every thing in line so my question how do i get my wife back should i let here go let her try how hard it is out there i just wish i could light that fire we had in the begging i know she had kids to early but we didnt want an abortion i feel so depressed and this stupid alcohol is not helping me i just feel so bad for our kids we should have waited had more fun with each other if any body knows how to pray pleaase do i'm a good man have a big heart i just wish i could help her if any women can give me some advice maybe you got married young and had kids write away thanks for your replay
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Roman, I am a man, and I do understand your situation. Life is hard now for many people. Those married couples who stay together and work together usually make it. It takes both to be strong. Sometimes the wife does have to carry the financial load..for a time. But it works out in time if they can be patient. I don't know how much you got into the drinking, but that won't help, Roman. Just try to be strong and find work wherever it is available. It may not be in your skill or training, but work is work. I have worked at many jobs that were not my skilled area, but they paid the bills till I found what I was looking for. Talk to your woman and try to work things out. Your children will need you as they get older, Roman. I don't like to see young couples separate, especially with children involved. Best wishes. Tom
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