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female
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writes:I am having such a terrible dilemma for the past 4 years.My best friend has two brothers. Twin brothers. One twin was bad, always in trouble and gone. The other was sweet, hard working and funny. One summer me and the good brother started kissen and kinda seeing each other for awhile. well then good brother and i just kinda drifted apart. a couple months later we were at a party. good brother had another girl there and was acting weird. well i had always though bd (bad bro) was cute. we started talking and then when he got clean and moved back we started seeing each other. we very rarely seen his good bro cuz he had his own life too. well, me and BD got really serious. When the good bro came around again he acted very jealous and would always say comments towards me when we were alone that he missed me. but i was with BD. we moved in together and i got pregnant. we were together but had a very bad relationship. a couple years later we split up for good. well the good bro has always been a close family friend and so he was coming around. well a couple times he would make comments towards me. i didn't really know what to do since i was his neices mom now. he got hurt and i didn't see him for a while. and i started seeing my current boyfriend. when we first started seeing each other we weren't "official" well, one day the good bro came to my house after he was better and we wound up making out. i didn't tell my boyfriend till about 3 months ago and now he freaks out all the time about the good brother. BD has no idea me and the good bro still have a thing for each other. And my boyfriend hates it. And when I seen the Good bro tonight at a bbq we just lock eyes this certain way and i just can never stop thinking about him. i just worry because i don't want to hurt my boyfriend over a quick fling. I can't figure out if the Good Bro really truly has feelings or just wants to get some ass. But he loves his neice, and he's more of a father to her than his brother but I'm just so confused. what should i do?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (8 May 2009):
 well first of all woah complicated story lol.
but second of all you need to talk to this good brother and find out his true feelings i mean to be honest i reckon he just generally like you he probably brought the other girl to the party to make you jealous and stuff.
but you should talk to him first find out his feelings and if he likes you as much as he says then you're going to have to do what is best for you and your daughter if you really like the guy your with or love then stay with him but if you feel your feelings for good brother are stronger then talk to him find out what he's feeling.
Hope this helps.
best of luck
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