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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating a woman for one year. We've been very romantic together, the lovemaking was always good, we communicate well, everything seems or seemed wonderful. Recently, however, she mentioned how she is being contacted from an ex-student of hers (she's a professor) and it seems to me when-ever she mentions his name, or him, she becomes slightly nervous. She's a very honest person, and I would expect her to tell me if she had romantic feelings for him. I believe he might be interested. Last night she recounted a conversation she had with him, and seemed very animated about him. She seemed a little strange during this time.Then when we were sleeping together, she couldn't sleep that night, and went into the next room.I had asked her once if she was attracted to him, seemingly as a joke, and she laughed, and said that I should see him! in-other words, that he's nothing special to look at. I can't help but suspect that she might have feelings for the guy.I feel that if I ask her point blank, she'll see me as a jealous fool. And yet I feel I should know.I was hurt before, in the same manner. My ex- fell in-love with another man, as I was in a long distance relationship, and I hadn;t seen her in 3 months. I'm afraid the same thing will happen again. I can't suffer like I did all those years ago. I'm afraid
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (8 May 2009):
 Its normal to suspect things if something like this has happened before. But she has been with you for a year, she wouldn't stay with you if she didn't love you! And so what if she has a little crush? Its you that she comes home to and wants to be with! X
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