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I always miss my chance to find love. Is there something wrong with me?

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Question - (8 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm fifteen years old, and I am always looking for a serious relationship. I have only been in two relationships cause I was thirteen. One of them lasted 8 months, and the other one lasted 4.

My ex boyfriend and I broke up in January, we had a little bit of a rocky break up, but a fairly good relationship.

Since then, I have had numerous offers to date, but I never seem to give them a second look, if they don't seem like a guy that will want a steady relationship with me. I'm not like other teenagers, who will date someone for two weeks and break up with them. I always fight for my relationships to last till the fullest.

Now my question is, is there something wrong with me? I always miss my chances to find love, but everyone says I should give people chances, and at least try, and I'm only fifteen and I want to settle down with someone, now don't get me wrong I've had my fair share of hook-ups.. but I would never have any intention of dating those guys.

Is there something missing in my life, that makes me feel this way about guys? how do I let go.. and try new things.

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A female reader, mimisoph3 United States +, writes (8 May 2009):

mimisoph3 agony auntomg ur the same age as me and u had two relationships and i had none i'm jealous lol.i dont want to sound like everyone else but ur still young ur 15 for god sakes u shouldnt worry about this now..this is the time u enjoy life and happiness wit everyone u love and just be a teenager u'll realize when u do find love first its gonna be great then ur gonna feel so tieedd up..nothing is wrong wit u u have been in two serious realtionship and u keep dating till u find the one..me had noo bf only 2 dates i'm the one in crises and i dont care..i'm enjoying life to the fullest :D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009):

hello :) i'm fifteeen too, well nothing is wrong with you. you sayy you wanna settle down but yet dont give guys a chance. are you sure you want to settle down? cuz it doesn't seem like it if you dont't try. dont judge a book by it's cover. you should give the guy a chance :) he could be the one you're looking for

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