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writes:My boyfriend and I are engaged and have been for the last past year and been together for 5 years now and had a baby last july. since i had been pregnant i noticed my boyfriend stopped giving me oral sex. now i admit when i was pregnant i could not stand giving him oral, certain things make a pregnant woman a little sick, sad i know, but it wasn't like that. he always want me to pleasure him, what about me? i'v asked him if theres something wrong? if i taste funny maybe smell he's usually really honest and says no... he doesn't tell me why... what could it be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i didn't deliever vaginally, i had an emergency c section so he didn't get to see the whole child birth thing. and believe me i do ask!!! i do!
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (8 May 2009):
 If you asked him and there seems to be no real problem, maybe its a psychological one? You had a baby, maybe in some kind of strange way he sees your haven as that babies home and feels a little weird going back down there? Maybe he just hasnt done it in so long that he isnt sure how or where to start - maybe he's being a git cause you wouldnt go down on him while you were pregnant - whatever it is, ask him, ask him again, see if you initiating anything of that nature could help - i agree somewhat that men arent psychic so you might just need to ask, but you're not psychic either so if there is a problem, he needs to speak up of get his diving mask on and get down there!!
Good luck!!
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reader, niki20 +, writes (8 May 2009):
 you said you had a baby. did he watch you have the baby? he might feel a little squimish w/ the image. however i agree w/ satin you cant always expect it, you have to ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): after i had my baby with my bf he was kinda the same way. i think its the whole thing of what they saw in the delivery room... my bf said he got a little scared lol and he was shocked. im guessing he knew what was going to happen in the delievery room but didnt excpet it to be that way... but after a while he got back to wanting to give oral sex........on the other hand. i used to know some guys that said they wouldnt give oral sex to a girl that has had a baby. i guess they thought it was weird or something.
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