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writes:Is there anyone else out there that would adapt and/or be just like me and be okay with my lifestyle and habbits? Im not a party person, I dont drink or smoke. Now that Im out of high school life seems a whole lot more boring. Im home alot and go out rarely. I play alot of video games and Im doing my college stuff online. I just got out of a relationship where it seemed to good to be true, a beautiful girl being completely okay with how I live and what I do (or dont do). Its like I was dreaming. Now like John Lennon says, and I quote, "The Dream Is Over" Will I ever find another beautiful girl that would love me for me concidering my lifestyle?
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reader, SJ_ninety +, writes (8 May 2009):
 I agree with Sodee and pretty much everyone else who's answered, lol. I personally find it endearing that you don't drink or party but I am wondering: Why did you break up with your last girlfriend? Was it reason on her end of the spectrum because you seem to have liked her a lot.
And I don't know if you're into this kind of thing, but there are comic book/video game conventions that are held randomly in randomly selected towns and cities, so why not check those places out?
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reader, niki20 +, writes (8 May 2009):
 yes of course. there are a lpt of beautiful women out there and im sure a lot morebthen you think would also be into video games and stuff your into. try hetting out of the house. it will drive you mad staying inside all day. not all pretty women are stuck up and like to party. youll find someone some day who will appreciate and love you for you.
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reader, sugar_sugar +, writes (8 May 2009):
 I dated a guy with a similar kind of social life, he loved his video games, he wasn't especially social, didn't have any desire to go out anywhere. Even aside from partying, it was kind of hard to get him out of the house to do anything I wanted to do, so here's my perspective based on that.
I think in a relationship people should meet half way. You shouldn't be expected to go out and party, get drunk, go crazy because your partner might want to. And your partner should accept that.
But I think as well as them accepting your lack of desire to do any of these stereotypical things, you should also make a concerted effort to accept the activities they do enjoy and join in every once in awhile.
There are lots of fun things to do with your partner that are low key, so I'm sure it won't be an issue :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Hey
I do the same as you. I dont drink, smoke or party. I LOVE gaming. I have no social life so what? Ok no I go out and meet people but at work and I do have friends yeah but I dont like to go out partying constantly drinking and destroying my body. To be honest when I tell people this they think its weird and I dont care.
Be proud of who you are I am.
Yes you will find someone exactly like you.
I just got out a serious relationship who was the same as me but I am sure I`ll find someone else like me. theres a whole load more geeks out there in the world!
please email me im interested in chatting more to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Of course you will. As a matter of fact you will find a really nice girl who will appreciate the fact that you arent an addict or a partyer going out and getting drunk every night and cheating! Just hang in there, you will meet someone. Since you are online so much try meeting someone there. Good luck to you!............J
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