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writes: My husband says, he does not care if, I don't feel his love.And he says ,he has enough of this ,that I keep telling him, he does not love me.And he says,if i don't I DON'T believe him, it's up to me.He can't tell me anything to beieve it more...So ,he is super passive, about this, and also never touches my body, but he says he is just not in the mood, for sex..Well, I told him ,maybe he is just not in a mood with me.What ever, he says. Now , I really wonder ,that what sign should I watch for his proof of love?That he works all day? That he won't ever say you are beautiful? That he wouldn't do a thing around the house? I don't remember the last complement...I think he just failed me, but can't let me go , for some reason/ ... Maybe shame. Maybe fear...I I don't belive him, that he loves me I can make a choice, but he is not going to change...Well, he definetly not spoiling me,not sexually, or any other way.Should I just divorce him as he said it, just make a choice?Is this a hidden meassage from him,without being rude?Am I wasting my time here? Is he just a passive guy, and can't even say it's over?What should I think?
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