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writes:So, yeah, I'm in love with this girl (and I don't use that word lightly) and she loves me too. We've loved each other since like 10th grade and we're both Seniors now. For some reason we can never get together...I put in my best efforts and she just kinda goes with the flow. She says stuff like "You're the only one I would feel comfortable enough giving my virginity too" and I tell her the same thing (and I'm being honest). Stuff like that, but for some reason we aren't a couple.Sometimes I forget that we aren't a couple...like on Valentine's Day I wanted to hang out with her, maybe go out or something (We didn't hang out often), but she decided to hang out with her friends, I was so annoyed back then, but looking back at it I realize that we were just friends.Recently I tried to progress with he a little. A while back I went over her house and we made out for the first (and only) time. She kept on saying stop cause her dad could come home any moment, but when my face would get close to hers she would kiss me anyway, lol. While she was on top of me I asked her to be my girlfriend...She said yeah (I was SO ecstatic, told my dad, step mom and a couple friends), but later on that day she said she felt pressured and we weren't together anymore.We stopped talking for a while, but now we're starting to hang out more and more...we even went to the movies a few days ago. Should I wait for her to come around or should I just move on. I don't know what she's thinking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Yes I suggest waiting for her. You have met someone you love so dont give up so soon! just sit down and talk to her about how you feel so strongly about it but ask what she wants out of the relationship too.
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reader, Djmclucas113 +, writes (8 May 2009):
 Well from the sounds of it I think that u should wait for her when u asked her to be ur gf I think that she really did want to be that but then the he thought of actually being ur gf sank in so she was afraid (which happens more then u might think) cuz u upped the playing field. She was no longer in the safe zone so she was afraid but what u will have to make her realize that when u have love u believe in it u trust it u take a chance on it. Ur willing to sacrifice anything to keep it no matter what the cost
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