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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi allNeed some advice on a situation i've gotten my self into. Recently i have chatting to a girl via facebook, who i am starting to really like. I saw her profile and discovered we have something really big in common.Practically life changing for both of us. i friend requested her and she accepted nearly straight away. We've mailed each other 50 or 60 times.Also she lives in New zealand and i'm from WalesWe now talk on instant messenger but i seem to be doing most of the talking. Her replies are very brief and take a long time as if she isn't bothered, i can't tell.We've covered all aspects of our lives in conversations, even tho she admits she finds it hard to trust people.Now my brother's family live in new zealand and i am planning on moving over to them in a couple of years, stranely enough to the same city she's planning to move to after Uni.My question really is-Is there any point in continuing to talk to this girl even tho i fear she might just be humouring me( or maybe not, i just can't tell) in the hope we'll meet someday? And whatever may followthanks all
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): There's nothing wrong with continueing to talk to her. If nothing else, you could make really great friends and just stay taht way. The thing i don't recomend is getting your hopes up for a romantic relationship. You really just need to be very straight up with her though. Ask he something like:
Are you really interested in talking to me? It seems like you aren't sometimes and i don't want to spend my time talking to someone who really doesn't want me to. I would really like to meet you one day but if you don't see anyhting in our future.. friendship, relationship or anything, then you need to tell me right now.
She's the one who really has the answers. not us.
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