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anonymous
writes: I'm 14 nearly 15 and for about 2 years I really liked this guy but a lot happened, we never went out and we stopped talking. I got over him and started going out with someone else. We dated for 3 months and have recently broke up.Me and the first guy are talking again but the thing is whenever I talk to him or he aknowledges me in any way I can feel my heart race but I'm over him.I have no idea what's going on and its confusing me.help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): i think deep down u still love himu might love ur bf but maybe u have a littlecrush on this guytry going out and meating new people u will soon forgetabout him there are loads of nice guys out thereu will eventully get over himdont worrygood luck findin someone else xx
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reader, Ms.Helper +, writes (8 May 2009):
I had the exact same problem, dating someone else and pretending you're over him doesn't help!If anything it makes it worse because you find yourself thinking about it a lot more than you usually would if you was in a relationship.You need time away from him, or a new hobby, something to take your mind off of him.I wrote all the bad things about 'my boy' and all the good things. The bad things list was a lot longer than the good things, and eventually (after 4 years) I realised he's an immature lad and needs to grow up, but even now i get butterflys when i see him, silly eh? Let me kno how the list comes on if you decide to try it out :)x
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reader, Heartbroken-xx +, writes (8 May 2009):
Obviously, your not over him. A part of youstill feels that way about him, maybe now your chanceif your interested.. don't let it pass bygood luckxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): maybe u still have feelings for this guy. ur age range is 13-15 so im thinking u might have fell for this guy kinda hard. just take some more time getting over him. dont think u have to try to be with him because u feel this way. u guys broke up for a reason. u are young. have fun. meet different people. eventually, ull get over this guy
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (8 May 2009):
Its just because you're not over him fully! You need a little longer to distance your emotions from him! X
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