A
female
age
36-40,
*anillafrost
writes:I've been working for this company for about four months now. I wasn't interested in this man until one day, our system collapsed and our teams were forced to lay down their duties.I haven't made any plans for that unexpected day off. So, I asked him to hang out with me because he is such a nice person. Altough he's never been particularly nice to me. HE IS EXTREMELY NICE TO ANYONE! We got to know each other better and I've told him about my difficult childhood.I feel like I'm falling for him and it's hard to stop it. I see him almost everyday! Also... I can't tell if he feels the same.. My mind is so clouded by emotions. I'm so blind at the moment. Do you know what I mean?How do I control my emotions in a situation like this?Thanks for reading! And sorry for any misspells. I am not a native english speaker.**Love** Reply to this Question
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reader, tattoo0fthesun  +, writes (8 May 2009):
 hmm well if i was in your place, id try to drop hints and get a good idea of how he feels about you. if he seems interested, tell him how you feel, you obviosly have no problem talking to him
hope this helps =)
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reader, Colormevibrant +, writes (8 May 2009):
*laughing* Simple answer. You CAN'T control your emotions based on what you've written. You can only control your ACTIONS until you have more information. Is he available for dating? Has he given you any indication that he's interested? Does he email, text or IM you during the work day? Has he asked you to lunch since that day?
If you don't have any evidence that he returns your feelings, take a cold shower, eat some chocolate, and find a more deserving target for those strong emotions. Most guys are perfectly capable of sending clear signals if they're interested -- especially if the girl is throwing them out first.
Also, you'll want to check your company's policy on coworker dating. If your company has a policy against it, some guys won't risk their jobs for a budding office romance.
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