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female
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36-40,
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writes:Ok here it goes, I met this guy about a month ago and straight away we were constantly seein each other and talking and we both knew there was something there.Then i had to tell him i was leaving to go to london in sept and i dont know what will happen with us, he was upset and confused but we still talked and planed to met up for a camping weekend with friends we then spent the weekend together and on the first night i got very drunk and said some things i dont at all remember and he was very awkward with me the next day, we had a talk about where this was all going and i said i can't have a boyfriend because of me moving (and partly because he was acting funny with me) but i still wanted to hang out with him and have fun to which he said he really wants a girlfriend and i mean "the one" a girlfriend to live with blah blah. So all our kissing and holding hand in public stopped apart from privatley that didnt change it was even more full on and he would still hug and touch me in front of people all the time and get jealous of other guys.So the trip was about 4 days ago now but we still talk everyday and text all day long and i will be staying at his on sat nite, some of our conversation lead to me moving away or working aboard or not being here all the time and he hints to things about other girls and once when i said something about another guy following me around he said to tell him about him, and then the guy will leave me alone. What i really want to know is does he still have feeling for me because i know i do for him it's just the situation is horrid and i can't see a future in it. I dont want to lose him as a friend or as "a more then friends person" but i think it would hurt me to see him with someone else, do you think he may feel the same way :( Thanks for the advice
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reader, Denizen +, writes (9 May 2009):
 He may be afraid of letting the relationship develop further if it has no future. If you are leaving the country that is going to be a nigh on impossible situation for all but the strongest, longest relationships to stand. It's a fork on life's road. However the best advice I can offer is when you come to a fork in the road - take it, and the quicker the better.
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